The Pursuit of Happiness

Isn't it true that we race to beat the person who is first? We want to be in the lead. We want to be chased by everyone else. We want to be someone that people will chase after or try to be like. Isn't it true that in love we want people to come to us, to find us and chase after us? We want friends to want to be with us and be in our group. People want friends to want to be friends. Relationships need to want each other. Without a desire there is no need, there is no love.

You must pursue. You must chase. You need to. The other person needs to be needed. Everybody needs to be needed. No one likes being alone.