Saturday, September 13, 2008

The music

We argue about music--at least my friends and I do-- about the affect of music on our moods. Does the music affect the mood, or the mood pick the music? And to be honest, I don't care. But something stood out to me.
Somehow I connect with depressing artists and their songs. It's as if it hits a string within me. I connect with it more than normal. The broken heart. The lost love. And the lonely days. I'm not sad. Things are really good, as a matter of fact. Even still, they have a charm to them. It's enticing. I think the fact that it's the raw emotion. The despair and the fight. The desire for company and companionship. Isn't that everyone's song? The desire for love.

2 comments:

Unknown said...

"the desire for love." i assume that the preposition is a dative preposition, in which case you mean it as someone wanting to get something. i believe you are right to say that people have a desire to be loved (to get love), but i would also add the caveat that they desire to love something, as well.

treader

Colin Reay said...

I would agree. It is in a way a desire to get something, but I think more than that it is the desire for love overall. The give AND take. The relationship. I see (maybe imagine, but still..) love as a two-way street, although I agree it can be singular, "the desire for love" is more of a plurality of love between two people.